Why Do Married Men Hire Social Escorts?

There are many reasons why married men will still engage social escorts in Singapore (If you are looking for a worthy recommendation in Singapore, check out – http://www.yp.sg/company/sgvip-services-pte-ltd https://www.yellowpages.com.sg/company/sgvip-services-pte-ltd), and here are some of the common reasons why.

Marriage getting stagnant?

First of all, their marriage may be getting stagnant. Let us not debate about ethics here, but sometimes, if you don’t put effort into a marriage relationship, things get stale and thus men may stray and want to find a social escort who can meet their emotional needs without any strings attached.

Financial dominance

Second of all, some men have a fetish for having financial dominance over women. This means that they will feel powerful when they are able to pay and get a female companion by their side. It validates their success that they have probably spent many hard years working on.

Arm candy

Third of all, many married foreigners and expatriates like to engage a social escort to accompany them to business events if their spouses are not with them. This is to create a better first impression when they have a gorgeous lady by their side, as it indicates their own financial success.

Are the above the only reasons? Probably not. Everyone engages a social escort model in Singapore for different reasons, and the above are just common reasons which I have found that married men have for engaging an escort model.

Here’s an interesting video you may want to watch to learn more:

Should You Be A Social Escort In Singapore?

Many girls in Singapore who are young and pretty want to try out the social escort industry as a lucrative way to quickly make extra money to fund their lifestyle or pay for their student loans. Regardless of the reason why you want extra and fast money, here are some things you should consider before deciding to become a social escort.

First of all, a legal social escort agency in Singapore will only ever ask you to go on dates with their clients, and not require you to provide any extra ‘activities’. This is because if they sold such activities, it means they are doing it illegally, and both you and the agency can get into legal trouble in Singapore. Therefore, if you work with a reputable company in Singapore like SG VIP Escorts careers, you have no worries about needing to provide such activities to clients.

Second of all, a good agency and manager will take proper care of you and make sure that your privacy, above all, is always protected. This is crucial because if they are not careful with your privacy online, your public identity may be leaked easily. Therefore, when it comes to signing agreements with the social escort agency as well as talking to the manager or director, make sure that they know what they’re dealing with. This is key if you’re considering to join an agency.

Third of all, even though being an escort is perfectly legal and is fully allowed and permitted by the local Singapore ACRA business regulatory authorities as long as you joined an ACRA registered agency,  there is still a negative social connotation with this industry. Therefore, don’t expect to join it and expect the whole world to egg you on and encourage you to do the work. If you are able to perform the work necessary while keeping the work experiences completely private to yourself, then you can live with it. Otherwise, be prepared for family members or friends to give you  the weird eye.

Finally, always ask yourself, are you comfortable with this job? Many girls are not comfortable with it, while some girls are perfectly happy with it. My opinion is that it’s your choice and you choose whether you want to or not. After all, there is nothing morally wrong or illegal with being a social escort. It is just a job like any other job in Singapore. For instance, there are some negative connotations towards insurance agents in Singapore as well, but there are still lots of people who do it successfully and make a lot of money in a short period of time. Same with social escorting, except that the work is usually far easier and you get customers easily when you work with a good social escort agency.

Difference Between A Social Escort And ‘Call Girl’

Contrary to popular belief, there is a difference between call girl services and social escort services in Singapore.

If you can’t be bothered reading this article, then skip to the bottom of the page to watch the video explaining the difference. For those who prefer to read, read on.

First and foremost, social escort models are simply girls who are highly attractive, are usually mainstream models or actresses, and are people who accompany high net worth clients to events or dates. They can also go on private dates with their clients, but they are only a romantic companion – see them as a beautiful girlfriend (without the sexual part). They are in other words, a temporary girlfriend. They will act and behave like a typical girlfriend, except they look really good are extremely eloquent, and are the perfect arm candy – e.g. they are like a form of status symbol. On the other hand, prostitutes or call girls are simply that… they only provide the deed to you, and don’t do anything else. In Singapore, those girls are usually foreigners from much lower income countries like Vietnam or Thailand. These are girls desperate low income men find for sex and then leave and do not want to be seen with and also do not even want to bother talking with them.

Second of all, social escorts are strictly not supposed to provide bedroom activities or services for their clients. This is something additional, and not considered part of their job scope. However, it’s known that there are some local Singaporean escorts who are also willing to do so, albeit it’s their own private choice between them and the clients. However, call girls do only that, and obviously would be rejected if they don’t provide such services.

For more differences between social escorts and call girls in Singapore, you may want to watch the following video:

How Can I Find A Good Escort Agency To Work For In Singapore?

Well, to be honest, most social escort agencies are kind of dodgy, because most of them don’t read the law. However, there are some escort agencies which are perfectly legitimate like SG VIP Escorts Singapore and a few others in Singapore. If you work with the right company, assuming you’re shortlisted, you will be able to make several times the salary of your current co-workers while working several times less. It’s a ridiculously lucrative industry, where you are paid in the hundreds per hour, and almost nothing else beats it. Anyway, here are some tips I have for you to look for the best agencies in Singapore.

Tip 1: You should look online with a simple Google search first (before going to Craigslist e.t.c.). A Google search will quickly bring up a plethora of agency names in Singapore, and you should then save their URLs so that you can move onto step 2.

Tip 2: Get your list of compiled information and local social escort agencies’ websites and look through their about us page. Most legitimate escort agency’s about us page should have a clear description of their company name, and full contact details e.t.c. as well as preferably even the company registration number (business or company UEN).

Tip 3: If you approach an agency, and they ask you to strip to take photographs of you, RUN! This is definitely a dodgy manager, and you should not work with them. Did you know that social escorts are not supposed to provide sexual services as part of their service in Singapore?

Tip 4: Can you provide bedroom activities to clients for extra money? Technically, yes you can. Albeit, you must do this on your own accord. Any discerning and legitimate agency will not want to engage, imply or sell such activities, as it will spoil their name. So you can rest assured your agency will never sell it. However, if you really want to make more money, yes, there are escorts who provide such services privately on top of / after their regular social escort services for a lot of money.

Tip 5: If an agency has constantly changing contact numbers, you can be sure that that agency is up to no good. First of all, how often do you hear a legitimate business (not in the social escort industry) change their office telephone numbers? Not too often. However, there are some less than desirable agencies in Singapore which change their numbers often (most often it’s because they perform illegal activities, and use prepaid SIM cards to prevent being tracked by the legal arm of the country). If they have no integrity when running business, they will probably have even less integrity when it comes to working with you and providing jobs with you. You never know when they’ll collude with someone else to harm you if they are willing to do illegal activities. Always work only with upright and legitimate agencies so that you can make a lot of money working as a social escort while not worrying about nonsense.

So there you go, 5 great tips to help you ideally find a good and legitimate agency to work with.

What Is Included In Social Escort Services?

Some of you who have heard stories and are thinking of engaging social escorts in Singapore, please read this post first as I share with you what is actually included as part of social escort services in Singapore.

  1. First of all, social escort services is basically services where an attractive lady will accompany and act as your plus one or girlfriend for dates.
  2. Of course, there are news stories where the social escort and the client goes for bedroom activities. However, do note, that such activities are not considered part of the social escort services. In fact, all legitimate agencies in Singapore will strictly inform you that they do not provide such services under all circumstances. So how then did those activities happen? Well, let me just answer with a metaphor: an insurance agents sells insurance… right? So why then are there agents who sleep with their clients as well? Same thing. It’s their own private matter, if your escort decide to do it with you, then it’s on their own accord, and not part of their services. If you engage social escorts in Singapore for bedroom activities instead of companionship, you will be largely disappointed. (I personally do not sleep with any of my clients, but I do act as a girlfriend in every other way possible).
  3. Most girls in Singapore only want to work under an agency, simply because most of them have a day job, and work as an escort model only on a part time basis. This means they do not have the time and effort to find clients steadily, and they also feel more protected, because their privacy is enhanced by having one more layer (the agency) between them and the clients. So, your best bet to find locals (who are more conservative) escorts are from local agencies in SG.

Last but not least, if you want to engage a social escort agency, always make sure to do your own due diligence before engaging them. Personally, the only one I recommend you is http://www.sgvipescorts.com/. They’re among the best and most established agencies in Singapore.

Photo credits to: http://www.sgvipescorts.com/
Photo credits to: http://www.sgvipescorts.com/

Working As An Social Escort In SG – Privacy Concerns?

After reading my first post, on life as a social escort in Singapore, and if you’re interested in being one, you may be most concerned about one thing – your privacy. That is normal of you to feel concerned about it, so let me address some of the common privacy concerns I used to have, and still have at the current moment even though I’ve been an escort model in Singapore for several years now (I’m a local Singaporean Chinese girl, just that Dakota is my ‘Alias’ I want to be using on this website).

  1. Your name – As I have used an alias for this website, I also have a special name for my escorting work. I do not use my actual name for my social escort work, and my current agency, SG VIP Escorts, uses another name for me as well to protect my privacy.
  2. Your contact details (including social media) – first of all, only work with a trusted agency. If they’re a legitimate agency which takes cares of its employees, you can rest assured your details are absolutely private. Additionally, because your alias/display name is different from your actual one, you will not be able to be found on social media.
  3. House address – this is a non-concern as a legitimate social escort agency will ask you to accompany clients, and not provide sexual services at your place. Therefore, other than for NRIC verification purposes (which I was panicky about when I first met SG VIP Escorts because I didn’t know them back then), your details are truly and fully 100% secure.
  4. Your CPF payments – commissions for social escort work in Singapore is always not accompanied with CPF. This is because your work as a social escort is on a part time commission only basis, which puts you under the purview of a contractor with the agency. You are not an employee under the company, and hence there is no CPF contributions. This is great for most escort models because most models don’t want any CPF contributions from their social escort work anyway, because they don’t want unnecessary questions from family and their day job employer about these additional CPF contributions.
  5. Your face – all agencies should crop out your face, or at least anything from your nose and above. Therefore, nobody will be able to recognize you from the photographs on the agency’s website.
  6. Meeting somebody I know – I will almost always ask the agency to first provide me with the client’s name (after they have placed a deposit), so that in the seriously rare event that it happens to be somebody I know, I will be able to pass on the job to some other escort with the agency instead.
  7. A client eventually turns out to be the boyfriend/husband of somebody I know – this is awkward, but if you really think about it, it’s no big deal. It’s the same as someone else dating your ex boyfriend. So, it just sounds awkward, but no more awkward than a normal boyfriend-girlfriend relationship.

Hopefully I have answered most of your queries once again! If you have any questions, here’s my email address, shoot me an email 😛 Email: admin@dakotaeranch.com

Life As An Escort In Singapore… Questions Answered.

A lot of people are curious about the life of a social escort living in Singapore, especially when Singapore is well known to be culturally conservative, just like most other neighboring South East Asian countries. In reality, it’s no big deal if you join the right agency, and here’s why.

  1. The right social escort agency will never ask you to have sex or sexual relationships with your clients. That is strictly illegal, and when you work with the right agency, they’ll have that clause right in the middle of your job agreement with them.
  2. Going out with a customer is just like going out on a date with a friend… Except that this friend pays you a lot and is way wealthier than most people you will meet on the streets. Most men who engage social escorts in Singapore are wealthy men making well over $10,000 per month.
  3. Would you feel embarrassed if your friends saw you going out with a rich man? Hell no! I would be proud 😛

Of course, with every job, there’s pros and cons. Here are some common cons:

  • It can be embarrassing to certain models to admit that they work as a social escort to family members during Chinese New Year for instance, so most models do escort work as a part time gig after their regular office work, even when they can make many times their normal salary as a social escort if they’re popular. This means that you’ll need to go out with clients after your work or on weekends and you may feel tired. But honestly, don’t you also go on regular dates during weeknights and weekends only? So it’s pretty much a small deal in my opinion.

    social escort
    This is not me. Haha. Just a random picture to get more views to my article 😛
  •  Due to a lot of black sheep, they have spoilt the reputation of social escorts, even though legitimate social escorts are vastly different from prostitutes. Therefore, even if you tell your friends you work as an escort to afford luxurious items, they may think that you’re doing less than desirable prostitution even though it’s far from that.
  • Sometimes you may get a client you may recognize, although in my years of being a social escort, I have not actually bumped into anyone I know… This is perhaps because my agency gets me mostly clients who are expatriates or very wealthy businessmen which unfortunately I do not know in real life. Ha. Ha. If you have more privacy related questions, you can read this post here.

Anyway, you may also have certain questions you want to ask, and the following are my answers to some of the questions I have gotten the most in the years I’ve been a social escort model in Singapore.

A) Do you ever fear that your identity would be exposed?
Again, this depends whether you join the right agency. The right agency will protect your identity, rights and respect your request for privacy. They will never reveal your true name, number and social media profiles whatsoever. Additionally, your photographs on their website will always be censored and unrecognizable!

B) How did you find your current escort job?
Google. Lol.

C) How many clients do you see on a weekly basis?
I would say on a busy week, around 3 to 4. Normal weeks I see around 1 to 2 clients per week.

D) Would you say that the pay is commensurate with the work you do?
Yes, I like it.

E) Will clients try not to pay you?
No. The agency I work with verifies the clients particulars and details before confirming the date with me. Additionally, the client will pay me on the spot before the date. No worries so far, as my prices are quite high, dodgy men can’t afford me. (Sorry for sounding arrogant but it’s the truth, you need to charge higher to prevent dodgy men from hiring you.) If you are wondering how to find a good Singapore escort agency to work with, check out my post here.

F) Will you ever retire from this industry considering how well paid you are?
Yes, but not by choice. I mean, after a certain age e.g. 28 years old or older, the demand drops significantly for you. This is from what certain older escorts have told me. (I’m 24 years old this year).

G) Do you prefer dating Singaporean men or expatriates since you have started your work in this line?
I personally don’t date anyone, as I don’t think any guy wants to date me if I’m currently a social escort and I don’t like to lie to my boyfriend. I intend to date seriously when I’m around 26 to 27 years old onward. Right now, for clients, as long as they pay me well I’m fine 😛

H) I am a girl reading this article. Should I get an escort job in Singapore too?
Do your own thorough research about the entire escort industry before committing.

I) Thank you for answering our questions, can I have your picture?
No! 😛

Ok that’s all. Hopefully the above helped to clear up any questions you may have about social escorts in Singapore!